now i am a singel mom..... :-(

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now i am a singel mom..... :-(

Postby whatanicegirl on Wed Apr 28, 2010 7:26 am

sorry for not showing up for a while. but my bf, my girls father, broke up with me. this .....of a ....... whatever. :-( i am really depressed, but i am going to make a new doll, but sth kinda beutifull. not allways sad stuff. leave me some nice comments. i am so sad! :-( men r really so stupid!!!!!! :jaw:
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Postby jadine on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:03 am

Oh, this so sad. I feel sorry for you, sweetie. Sending a big hug your way.
It is a good thing to sculpt times like this, to let sadness go! Waiting for the pics of your doll!
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Postby Linda Ehrenfried on Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:26 am

Sweetie , in the words of Carrie Bradshaw. "Men are like shoes, you buy a pair without trying them on, Ya love em, you wear em for a while and then they start to give you blisters. You try everything but nothing works so you end up tossing them out. But the good news is, there are always more shoes to be had and blisters will heal so lets go shopping." Hugs, linda
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Postby PixieKnoll on Wed Apr 28, 2010 9:59 am

I think Linda said it pretty well. I know that right now your heart probably feels like it is literally torn into a million pieces, as it should because love always hurts. But, just like the blister on your foot, your heart will heal over time and you will find that you were tired of that old shoe anyway. haha And, I will also say that as beautiful as you and your daughter are, you will have no problems finding a new fella in no time at all. When one door closes, another opens with bigger and better opportunities. Don't look at it as a closed book....rather, look at it like it is the end of a chapter, and you are moving on with the rest of the story.

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Postby tryny000 on Wed Apr 28, 2010 9:59 am

Oh, sweet heart!! I'm so sorry to hear about that. Stay away from sad movies, and music!!!! When one door is close 1000 are about to open... keep that in mind. I hope you will feel better about very soon. Go on, just sculpt, as this is a very good therapy to relax and build your own special world!! Big Hug dear!
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Postby muts on Wed Apr 28, 2010 1:01 pm

aaaaw hunni, im so sorry
youll b ok though
i promise
were all here for you
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Postby Raffa on Wed Apr 28, 2010 1:58 pm

I'm so sorry to hear this bad new...I hope you will be bettr sculpting a new doll .I can feel your sadness , You need to sculpt and a bit of Nutella!!!It's a good remedy for depression and broken heart.
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Postby fabrags on Wed Apr 28, 2010 11:36 pm

I am sad for you too!

But the girls are right, you will get better and life will look rosier soon.

All my love to you.

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Postby Tenderspirit on Thu Apr 29, 2010 1:01 am

I am so sorry, and I know what you are feeling as I recently broke up with my honey after being with him for 10 years. We happen to be still friends but it just is not the same any more. It will hurt for a season as you can not love someone and lose them, and feel no pain. But you are a beautiful young, talented woman. I wish I would have broken up when I was your age instead of being 58. ugh And no men are not like women, they really just don't think like we do at all, they work on a whole different kind of brain than we do. But you must remember especially at your age that there are many more men in the world and you know have an opportunity to perhaps meet one that will better meet your needs. I don't know of any good books to recommend to you that are written in Germain, ugh but two books I read that are fantastic are, "Are you the one for me" and Making Love all the time, by Barbara DeAngelo. Not sure if you can read English well or what it is like getting books in different languages but those were on Amazon.com and very cheap like 6.99 or 8.99. They helped me to see what was missing in me, and what to avoid in men, what things just will not work. etc. I realized there are a lot of things about me I need to change too, that it is never all their fault as we are the ones who chose them. So by knowing how to make better choices it gives me the faith to know that when I am ready, he will come along. In order to meet the man of my dreams I have to become that person I am looking for. And I sure am not there yet. LOL But I have faith that I will do what I need to do to grow and become that person, as I surely one day want to meet that man and truely be happy.

so for the moment your heart breaks, but you can thank your God that he brought you to all of us just at the right time when he saw before it happened that you were going to need the support.

Be assured we are all here for you and you can pm any of us any time and we will do our best to let you know we really do care about what you are feeling and care about you, because God added you to our little family here and you are now like our little baby sister. so when you hurt, we hurt.

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Postby Dezhire on Thu Apr 29, 2010 3:13 am

I am so sad to hear of this, sweetie! Yes, a lot of men just DON"T GET IT!!!! I know you are hurting and I wish there was something I could do to make you smile and be happy again, but all I have for you is my shoulder to cry on if you ever need one, an ear for you to talk to and cry to and scream to without any judgement, arms to hug you and hold you and let you just be and a heart to share with since yours is broken right now. You can talk to me anytime you want or need to. Hugs to you!
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Postby Linda Ehrenfried on Thu Apr 29, 2010 1:26 pm

I don't see a responce from you, but I hope my Carrie quote made you laugh, at least smile. I know I almost feel out of my chair laughing while watching sexin the city. I thought it would cheer you up. I hope it did.
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Postby Summersethomes on Tue May 04, 2010 7:55 am

I agree with Raffa, sculpting and some food will help a lot when I was going through my break up. a lot of Natalie Cole http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnQloF3p__c
carly simon http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zF2BmUo5Tz0 , Aretha Franklin http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0XAI-PFQcA and Alanis Morrisette http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dR6mEu5-egA

you aren't alone, we have all been there and it's made us stronger, the downside is that sometimes they come back when they find out that they aren't as hot as they think they are. Mine did and I showed him the door.

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Postby whatanicegirl on Wed May 26, 2010 3:01 am

thanx to you all. i am fine now :-) thank u so much for your support. helped me alot. i finally made it to sign back by paying the membership. lets keep sharing our great artwork! hugz to you all!
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Postby PixieKnoll on Wed May 26, 2010 9:57 am

It is wonderful to see you are doing better AND that you are back here with us again! <3

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